谁能帮我详细的翻译一下这篇文章啊，谢谢了。
For many parents, raising a teenager is like fighting a long war, but years go by without any clear winner. Like a border conflict between neighboring countries, the parent-teen war is about boundaries: Where is the line between what I control and what you do?
Both sides want peace, but neither feels it has any power to stop the conflict. In part, this is because neither is willing to admit any responsibility for starting it. From the parents’ point of view, the only cause of their fight is their adolescents’ complete unreasonableness. And of course. the teens see it in exactly the same way, except oppositely. Both feel trapped
In this article. I’ll describe three no-win situations that commonly arise between teens and parents and then suggest some ways out of the trap. The first no-win situation is quarrels over unimportant things. Examples include the color of the teen’s hair, the cleanliness of the bedroom, the preferred style of clothing, the child’s failure to eat a good breakfast before school, or his tendency to sleep until noon on the weekends. Second, blaming. The goal of a blaming battle is to make the other admit that his bad attitude is the reason why everything goes wrong. Third, needing to be right, It doesn’t matter what the topic is –politics. The taws of physics, or the proper way to break an egg –the point of these arguments is to prove that you are right and the other person is wrong. for both wish to be considered an authority—someone who actually knows something — and therefore to command respect. Unfortunately, as long as long as parents and teens continue to assume that they know more than the other, they’ll continue to fight these battles forever and never make any real progress
下面我将分别介绍三种在家长和孩子间常见的"双输"的情形并给出建议。
第一种情况是因为鸡毛蒜皮的事情争吵。比如孩子头发的颜色，卧室整不整洁，穿衣风格，上学前不吃早餐，或者是周末很晚才睡。
第二种是责备。互相指责的目的是让对方承认争吵都是因为他恶劣的态度。
第三种是关于政治，不管话题是什么。一些物理问题，亦或是怎样打鸡蛋才正确，这些争论的要点无非是证明你是对的而对方是错的，双方都想树立自己的权威，都想被看做是真正懂点东西的人，从而获得对方的尊重。不幸的是，只要家长和孩子继续认为自己比对方懂的多，他们之间的争斗就会持续而且绝不会有任何好转。
双方都想要和平,但既不感到有任何权力来阻止冲突。在某种程度上,这是因为既不愿意承认任何负责启动它。从父母的观点,唯一的原因是他们的斗争中青少年的完整的无理性。当然。青少年看到它完全相同,只是相对的。双方都感到困
在这篇文章中。我将描述三个必败的情况,通常出现的青少年和父母之间,然后建议某些方面的陷阱。第一个两难的情况是一些无关紧要的事情上的争论。例子包括青少年的颜色的头发,整洁的卧室,首选的风格的服装,孩子未能在上学前吃一顿好早餐,或者倾向于在周末睡到中午。第二,指责。战争的目标是使指责其他承认他的恶劣态度是为什么一切都错了。第三,需要正确的,不管有什么样的话题是政治。物理学的鞭打,或适当的方式来打破鸡蛋——这些争论点是证明你是对的,别人是错的。对于双方都希望被视为一种权威有人真正知道一些——因此博得尊重。不幸的是,只要父母和青少年继续认为他们知道的比其他的,他们会继续对抗这些战斗永远,从来没有取得任何实质性进展追问
战争是关于边界的份家长和孩子之间:之间的界线在哪里我控制和你做什么?
不明白,
双方都想要和平,但既不感到有任何权力来阻止冲突。在某种程度上,这是因为既不愿意承认任何负责启动它。从父母的观点,唯一的原因是他们的斗争
